The concept of eight-character marriage (ba zi) has a long historical foundation, but in modern times many people place their trust in science and dismiss practices without a scientific basis. To them, ba zi marriage appears unreliable—something closer to metaphysics—and thus not widely accepted.

Today, when two people fall in love, their decision to be together is usually based on personality, shared values, and mutual understanding, rather than on comparing birth dates. Still, relationships can be complex, influenced by factors such as education, family background, and life circumstances.

In this sense, ba zi marriage is much like consulting Feng Shui when buying a home. While it cannot guarantee lifelong happiness, it provides a sense of reassurance, suggesting that the couple’s destinies are aligned and their union is well-suited.